March 2012
4 posts
Take the time to appreciate the little things in...
Sometimes we look at the big picture and focus on all the bad things in our life. But if you step back and think, you can find some really good things still in your life :)
Anonymous asked: I have been stressing a lot lately, so bad that I got an ulcer from the stress. My parents are pushing me so hard in everything and I tried to talk them about it but they said they're not putting stress on me but they are and I can't handle it, but it seems that they don't care. They told me I was stressing myself and I had to deal with things on my own. What can I do?
Anonymous asked: How can you recover from an eating disorder without talking to anyone about it? I haven't eaten in about 2 weeks, but I just can't force myself to eat, I just can't tell anyone either.
Anonymous asked: I know this sounds incredibly stupid, but I just found out I'm in remission from cancer and I'm going back to school, but I'm scared. I know people know, but I'm scared for their questions and I don't want their pitty. Also, I lost my hair, and wig looks stupid so I don't know if I should wear that, or a hat or something? I don't want to feel stupid. I don't...
February 2012
29 posts
1 tag
Sometimes when you least expect it, good things...
Anonymous asked: Why do I mess up everything that is important to me? Why can't I just be happy?
Anonymous asked: I've been contemplating cutting lately.I've never done it before, but last week sucked! for absolutely no reason I couldnt bring myself to enjoy anything! i kept drawing butterflies on my wrist but I couldnt think of anyone to name them after :'( so I ended up fucking sleepin the week away to avoid cutting the nameless butterflies I kept drawing... its now sunday night I have tons...
Anonymous asked: if you don't say how to hide cuts, you won't say how to hide bruises either, will you?
Anonymous asked: I'm sick, and I'm so scared that I won't get better. I go to the dr, and they do the tests and treatment and stuff, but I'm scared it's not helping, and I won't get better.
Anonymous asked: My bf wants to have sex, it will be my first time, but not his. im scared to have sex because i think it will hurt. will it hurt bad? and is there any way to make it hurt less, or not at all?
Anonymous asked: If I did want to stop cutting, instead of hiding it, who should I talk to? My parents really don't care. And I would hate to dump my problems on my friend.
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend is abusive and I wanted to leave him but while I was trying to get the courage to get help, he forced me to do things with him, that I wasn't comfortable with, basically he took my virginity. I should tell someone about that, or just that he is abusive?
Anonymous asked: I have been cutting, because it's the only way I can deal with the things I'm going through, the problem is I'm cutting more and more and it's getting harder to hide. Is there any way you know of to hide it?
Anonymous asked: I know this isn't a huge problem, but I'm a junior in hs and I have to apply for colleges next year, but I still don't know what I want to major in.
Anonymous asked: How do I tell a girl that is head over heels for a kid, that I think he's playing her. He can honestly ignore her for days upon days and text her once and she never gets mad. Today is when I realized I honestly think he's playing her..He asked her to hang out and she couldn't and he stopped texting her the whole day. She told me today he hates PDA so when she sees him at hockey...
polo-flavored asked: i need some advice :( how do i talk to women
hey guys, hope everyone is having a great day :)
ask some questions!
Anonymous asked: Okay, so my problem is I have an eating disorder, I know this. My parents know this, but they're the reason I have an eating disorder. They tell me I have to do whatever it takes to look good. I'm down to 111 at 5 foot 6. I can't do it anymore, but they're so harsh and they say such mean things to me that I can't even eat. I don't know if there's anything I can...
Anonymous asked: So, my boyfriend is obsessed with this one actress. I know it's stupid and I shouldn't let it get to me, but he talks about her all the time. I know that my boyfriend loves me, and he tells me I'm beautiful, but I feel like I don't measure up. She's beautiful, funny, and cute, and I'm just a dumb potato. I literally cannot stand it when he talks about her. It makes me...
Anonymous asked: does crying make you weak?
Anonymous asked: How do you hide abuse?
Anonymous asked: Hi. My friend is going through a really tough time and I have told her I'm here for her but I wish there was something I could do to help.
Anonymous asked: I have a problem, and I know it sounds stupid, but when I was younger I had cancer, and I had a lot of surgeries and stuff, so now I have a lot of scars and stuff, and I'm supposed to go to Junior Prom this year, but I can't find a dress that covers the scars, and they're so ugly, and I'm so embarrassed of them that I really don't even want to go. Do you have any advice...
stopfollowingstartleading asked: Just wanted to stop by and tell you thanks for everything you told me the past two days. I'm the person that didn't have to courage to tell the girl I had feelings for her and when I finally did I came up short, but we are staying friends and I'm thankful for that. I don't care if its not anon anymore. I just want people to know, this girl knows what she's talking about....
I hope everyone has a nice Valentine's day :)
Even if you’re spending it alone, make the most of it! Go out and do something fun for YOURSELF!
Anonymous asked: I want to leave an abusive relationship, but I just can't get the courage to do it. My parents told me if I was stupid enough to be with a guy who abuses me, I can figure things out on my own.
BOTH guys and girls deserve to be happy and...
Both sexes do wrong. Girls have no right to say all guys are jerks, and guys have no right to say all girls are bitches. It’s all individual.
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend compliments other girls all the time, but he never compliments me. I don't know why, but it really hurts me, like I'm not good enough or something.
Anonymous asked: I have been cutting, pretty bad lately because I'm going through so much, and it's the only way I can deal with things. I'm anemic, so losing blood is even more dangerous. I know it's dangerous, but I don't feel I can talk about what's going on, and cutting helps.
Anonymous asked: Would it be alright to just like ask someone to dinner tomorrow? Like, with no ties or anything to the dinner, and it wouldn't really be a date. It would just be a fun thing to go out to dinner with someone, and pretend were valentines.
Anonymous asked: LOVE your icon picture, just puttin it out there.
Don't live your life, live your dream.
No matter how crazy people think your dreams are, all that matters is that they are YOUR dreams. Forget what everyone says and go for it :)
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